oh sophie sophie sophie.

this shit i've been goin' through is getting worse and worse.

you are the only reason i haven't killed myself yet.

and i say this on a serious note.

Clingy.

we turn into this monster for numerous reasons. not just being cheated on, lied to or anything that'll somewhat traumatize you for some apparent reason. i cannot deny that i went through this phase also and i ain't proud that i did. that really wasn't my thing.

when you're in a relationship, the constant need for you to see them, know where they are, who they're with and what they're doing is a natural thing, but give em' a little space to play also. when i say play, i mean spend time with their own friends and have a good time with them. for me it may be drinking, sports, games or whatever comes into mind except for flirting around or fucking around. its just a matter of balancing and budgeting your time accordingly.

one text/call when the plans come up, another to let em know you're on the way and another one to let em' know you just got home is enough. if you feel like texting/calling while you're there and your partner ain't asking, then by all means do so. this gives a sense of security for your partner which is one of the ingredients to a healthy relationship. if your partner does the same, then lucky you. if they don't then don't expect or demand for its a one way trip to a fight turning your relationship to a train crash just waiting to happen or it'll only destroy the trust in your relationship. ending up, can you still love a person you cant trust? "i trust you" is more valuable than "i love you" remember that.

hindering your partner from being friends with the opposite sex will only push em' more to deceive you. some men are more comfy opening up to women and vice versa. i'm pretty sure you agree with me on this its really different from opening up with the same sex but know your limits of course. doesn't mean if your partner allows you to go out a lot with the opposite sex, you take advantage of that fact and make a window for you to cheat. karma will get back at you and when it does it bites you fucking hard.

but other than that. i'll give you a scenario wherein someone is tempted to cheat. let's say that your relationship is in a very unstable state and you get acquainted with someone new which is also the complete opposite of your current partner. since you're getting to experience something new, you cling to the hope it would be different with them but as time passes by turns out its the same and you find yourself in the same dilemma again. then the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" hits you. "i could've just compromised with the first one".

here's my hand, saving you either from a break up or a bad relationship.

learn to give the benefit of the doubt.

So, my point is. if you're clingy, better learn how to stop that or...nah, go ahead. learn the lesson yourself.

Zambatangas 2012.

Vain motherfuckers

other pic of the BITCH

Parking Pay? Seriously?

our view from where we were.

Jetski?

Jed and I just chillin'

It all started one night when I, Jed and Jon were just chillin' like villains at i dunno. this urge to go to the beach suddenly kicked in and i immediately asked them "tara Zambales tayo bukas." coz these are the types of friends that are very spontaneous so they agreed but Jed suddenly had plans with his dad so the plan was delayed by 2 days. the plan was to go to Zambales without any reservation whatsoever, go surfing, get drunk and intoxicated on the beach.

2 Days after, we agreed to meet at 10am but since the night prior to that we all got home around 5am, our 10am became 12pm. the bus we were supposed to take was also gonna leave the terminal at 1pm. we still went to the bus terminal hoping we'd get a ride to zambales. turns out the bus was already full and if we wanted to ride, we'd have to stand up till olongapo. then i was like "fuck this, let think of a plan B." so we had brunch first at Kenny right beside the Heritage Hotel and decided to go to Laiya instead. we rode back to the south and had my hair shaved first before we went there, rode a bus to i dunno where and dropped of at i dunno where also. Lipa? yea, it was Lipa. took a shuttle to San Juan Bayan. we talked to the driver to drive us to Laiya, paid P1000 for the ride when we could've rode a jeep there instead which costs around P40/ea.

Finally arrived at Laiya, we found a house to stay at for P2700. the room was okay but the people around it wasn't so i desperately looked for a cottage/room that we could transer but all the other resorts were already fully booked. i understood why since it was the holy week. the thing is, electricity was out from the time we got there till around 9PM. we settled in our house at around 10pm, went to the clouds and then finally to the beach.

so here's a couple of things we did there:

- laid down on the shore of the beach, getting our body wet by the gentle waves while looking at the clear skies. it was nostalgic. "sarap mag moonbathing, kaso wala tayong moonblock baka ma-moonburn mga balat natin"

- crawling on the shoreline with only our heads above the water from la luz to white cover back and forth. the people who saw us were like "mga sireno oh!" and "ayos trip natin mga pre ah!" we didn't care since we were laughing our asses off.

- Jon left his black shirt on the shoreline before we crawled around the beach, on the way back we where all looking for it but since it was dark plus the shirt was also dark it seemed impossible. then he suddenly.... Jon: "ayun nakikita ko na yung shirt ko!", Jed & I: "saan?", Jon: "ayun oh sa buhangin!" Jed & I: "DAFUQ?! AHAHAHAH" LOL

- went to the clouds and drank on the beach. chill drinkin' we were laughing our asses off the whole night making fun of the people around us even though they could clearly hear us.

morning came, we woke up around 6am to go swim at the beach again. had breakfast at a nearby "karinderya" where the food was SOLID. haha i knew it was gon' be another adventure going back to civilization.. and it really was. we even thought we were stranded at Turbina(Thanks bree for correcting me! haha), good thing there were really buses which was going to Alabang.

there you have it, my adventure together with my spontaneous friends. it was hella' fun.

best part is, this is only the start. more comin' soon!

Good times brothas! Good times indeed!

Goodshit, Goodtimes and the Goodlife!